Category Archives: Divorce

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Adjusting to stepfamily life occurs quickly…

Posted on February 4, 2014 by Tracey

Couples are optimistic when they remarry.  They want life to settle down and to get on with the business of being happy.  However, it can take a long time for people in newly blended families to get to know each … Continue reading →

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What ARE you Fighting About?

Posted on January 28, 2014 by Tracey

Do you find that you and your partner seem to fight about everything?   Maybe it’s the little things like; taking the garbage out, picking up bread from the store, answering the phone, etc.   Maybe you fight about bigger topics like; money, friends, … Continue reading →

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DO NOT Try This At Home!

Posted on October 29, 2013 by Tracey

Have you ever noticed that some people know just what to say at the right time.   They seem to know when a friend is sick; they are caring and compassionate, and step up to support as needed.   When a friend … Continue reading →

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Divorce: What not to do to your kids

Posted on October 22, 2013 by Tracey

Divorce is a very adult decision that affects everyone; the kids, the pets, the friends, the in-laws and the out-laws.  How do you get through such a huge life event without screwing it up? First, know you will, inevitably, make mistakes.  … Continue reading →

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Infidelity – Summary

Posted on October 15, 2013 by Tracey

Infidelity changes things about ourselves and how/who we are in relationships from this point on and  should not be taken lightly, whatever the role you play, be accountable for your own actions.   If you decide to cheat, know you are hurting someone … Continue reading →

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Next Steps – Infidelity Part 3

Posted on October 8, 2013 by Tracey

As either the cheater or the cheated, you can decide to stay or go.   Generally, people stay for a couple of reasons: money, history, children, and/or love.   Getting past infidelity is difficult.   It is not for others to decide for … Continue reading →

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WHY THEY CHEAT – Infidelity Part 2

Posted on October 1, 2013 by Tracey

You name it.   Accident, just happened, didn’t mean to, don’t know how it happened… I’ve heard it all.   But I’ve also been present when clients discuss their fears, shame, feeling alone.   Sometimes the one cheated on encourages this behavior by … Continue reading →

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Talking Points on Infidelity – Part 1

Posted on September 24, 2013 by Tracey

You have heard the saying, “It takes two to tango.”   This applies to all relationships, the good and the bad.   Answer me this: If your relationship is going well you share in that – why would you not believe you … Continue reading →

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Dating after Divorce

Posted on May 30, 2013 by Tracey

You just got divorced, or perhaps you’ve been single again for a while.   When is the right time to get involved again?  How do you know you are ready to get in another relationship? Believe it or not but there … Continue reading →

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Worst Case Scenario for Mothers

Posted on April 25, 2013 by Tracey

Perhaps you grew up dreaming of a football team of kids in the house or just a boy and girl – in that order.   Life sometimes has its own agenda, doesn’t it?   Some women find they can’t have children at all … Continue reading →

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