Tag Archives: conflict

What ARE you Fighting About?

Posted on January 28, 2014 by Tracey

Do you find that you and your partner seem to fight about everything?   Maybe it’s the little things like; taking the garbage out, picking up bread from the store, answering the phone, etc.   Maybe you fight about bigger topics like; money, friends, … Continue reading →

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Money

Posted on January 21, 2014 by Tracey

Money doesn’t change a person, it unmasks who they really are. Think money buys happiness?   Why does having money change people? I’m wondering how you have been affected by winning the lottery or gaining an inheritance?   How did you change?   … Continue reading →

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Road Rage

Posted on January 7, 2014 by Tracey

It is easy to get anxious, frustrated, and angry when you are late and on your way to an important appointment.  Add to this already tense situation other drivers.  You got it, traffic.  Wouldn’t it be nice if you had … Continue reading →

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I know you are but what am I?

Posted on December 31, 2013 by Tracey

How you perceive others is like looking in the mirror. Do you find yourself saying someone is ALWAYS negative?   Hmmm, maybe it’s time for a good self assessment.   It is easier to see in others what we cannot (refuse) to … Continue reading →

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DEALING WITH THE IN-LAWS

Posted on December 17, 2013 by Tracey

Whether you are hosting a dinner, visiting for the holidays, or meeting for the first time, the in-laws can be a little scary.   You may be full of questions but the biggest is likely, “will they like me?” or “what … Continue reading →

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Art of Friendship

Posted on December 10, 2013 by Tracey

Just like any other relationship, friendships are a balance of giving and taking.  here are some things to think about: Do keep secrets – even if the friendship ends. Don’t borrow money or expensive objects. Do nurture the relationship with kindness, … Continue reading →

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Shame

Posted on November 12, 2013 by Tracey

Shame starts as a  two-person experience, but as I got older I learned how to do shame all by myself. –   Robert Hilliker What shame do you carry?    Is it all yours or did someone (friend or foe) gift it to … Continue reading →

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DO NOT Try This At Home!

Posted on October 29, 2013 by Tracey

Have you ever noticed that some people know just what to say at the right time.   They seem to know when a friend is sick; they are caring and compassionate, and step up to support as needed.   When a friend … Continue reading →

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Rewrite History

Posted on September 10, 2013 by Tracey

Try using this technique when in conflict with another person.   Often we “know” we are just as right as the other person believes they are.   What if you switched perspectives?  What if you argued the other persons point of view … Continue reading →

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