Do you find that you and your partner seem to fight about everything? Maybe it’s the little things like; taking the garbage out, picking up bread from the store, answering the phone, etc. Maybe you fight about bigger topics like; money, friends, family, sex, etc. Whatever it is that you fight about, I’m 100% positive it is important to you.
Often when couples fight about everything, they are truly not fighting about the real bigger issue. If ignoring the phone is the hot topic then maybe we should talk about the major underlying issue that has caused this symptom to become the focus.
In my experience with couples, I have found there is a thought, feeling, or perception that has gone unvoiced or dismissed in the relationship. Once I uncover THIS topic we make headway in finding resolution with the smaller issues. I do this by teaching my clients how to communicate the issue, listen to the issue, find understanding, and ultimately forgive.
Whether you feel unheard or unappreciated now, with just a few skills and practice you can resolve your issues and find an easy, peaceful home tomorrow!
What are YOU fighting about? Let’s find out!
I placed “Fair Fighting” on my website for your review and guidance. Do not hesitate to contact me if you need to learn or hone your ‘fighting’ skills. The ability to articulate and receive information is far-reaching as these skills carry across all relationships: friends, family, co-workers, and businesses.