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Adjusting to stepfamily life occurs quickly…
Couples are optimistic when they remarry. They want life to settle down and to get on with the business of being happy. However, it can take a long time for people in newly blended families to get to know each … Continue reading
I know you are but what am I?
How you perceive others is like looking in the mirror. Do you find yourself saying someone is ALWAYS negative? Hmmm, maybe it’s time for a good self assessment. It is easier to see in others what we cannot (refuse) to … Continue reading
Posted in Conflict, Relationships (other)
Tagged conflict, negativity, perception, self assessment
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Relationship question…
If your relationship were a party, what would it look like? Would it be an intimate dinner? Would it be a rave? A costume party? What does it look like to others?
DEALING WITH THE IN-LAWS
Whether you are hosting a dinner, visiting for the holidays, or meeting for the first time, the in-laws can be a little scary. You may be full of questions but the biggest is likely, “will they like me?” or “what … Continue reading
Posted in Anxiety, Blended or Step Family, Marriage, Relationships (other)
Tagged Anxiety, conflict, conflict resolution, in-laws, marriage, relationships
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Art of Friendship
Just like any other relationship, friendships are a balance of giving and taking. here are some things to think about: Do keep secrets – even if the friendship ends. Don’t borrow money or expensive objects. Do nurture the relationship with kindness, … Continue reading
Posted in Conflict, Relationships (other)
Tagged conflict, friends, friendship, giving, relationships
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Holiday Gift Giving Ideas
Keep a list of ideas throughout the year. * Consider whole family gifts – bowling, movie, games, etc. * Give experiential gifts vs tangible items. ex. Ski or concert tickets, massage or therapeutic sessions. * Only buy for the kids … Continue reading
Posted in Anxiety, Gratitude, Miscellaneous, Relationships (other)
Tagged Anxiety, gifts, holiday gifts, holidays
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Grief and Gratitude
I know this may sound like the impossible but hear me out. We have all experienced a great love and lost it. We know the pain and emptiness that is left in the void of loss. We believe, in the … Continue reading
DO NOT Try This At Home!
Have you ever noticed that some people know just what to say at the right time. They seem to know when a friend is sick; they are caring and compassionate, and step up to support as needed. When a friend … Continue reading
Posted in Conflict, Divorce, Marriage, Relationships (other)
Tagged blame, complain, conflict, conflict resolution, divorce, humiliate, name calling, punish, resentment
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Infidelity – Summary
Infidelity changes things about ourselves and how/who we are in relationships from this point on and should not be taken lightly, whatever the role you play, be accountable for your own actions. If you decide to cheat, know you are hurting someone … Continue reading
Posted in Conflict, Divorce, Gratitude, Marriage, Relationships (other)
Tagged change, cheating, divorce, forgiveness, infidelity, lessons learned, marriage
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Next Steps – Infidelity Part 3
As either the cheater or the cheated, you can decide to stay or go. Generally, people stay for a couple of reasons: money, history, children, and/or love. Getting past infidelity is difficult. It is not for others to decide for … Continue reading
Posted in Conflict, Divorce, Gratitude, Marriage, Relationships (other), starting over
Tagged cheating, forgiveness, infidelity, lessons learned, starting over
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