Adjusting to stepfamily life occurs quickly…

Couples are optimistic when they remarry.  They want life to settle down and to get on with the business of being happy.  However, it can take a long time for people in newly blended families to get to know each other, to create positive relationships, and to develop a family history.

You may know your partner but the kids and your family don’t know them like you do.  Your ex will also have a reaction – it’s hard not to.  Even if you have lived together before getting married – things will change once you become a “step family”.

Trust me – I wish I could keep it from happening but there is no special mantra.   You just have to prepare, prepare, prepare and then work, work, work.

Do you need some assistance, or ideas?

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