You name it. Accident, just happened, didn’t mean to, don’t know how it happened… I’ve heard it all. But I’ve also been present when clients discuss their fears, shame, feeling alone. Sometimes the one cheated on encourages this behavior by their actions, sometimes they turn a blind eye. Sometimes the cheater wants change in their relationship sometimes they hide behind the security of their relationship to act out. Like I said, infidelity is as individual as the people in the relationship.
Just as there are many reasons why 50% cheat, well, obviously there is 50% of the population that doesn’t cheat. Do they refuse to cheat? Have they just not had the same opportunities?
If you are NOT a cheater, why?