Category Archives: Marriage

Creative Valentine’s Day

Make and write cards Write a poem about: first meeting/date  best memory the future See “Phantom of the Opera” Ladies: meet him at the door in only a red ribbon Guys: tell her how your life has changed with her in it Recreate … Continue reading

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Adjusting to stepfamily life occurs quickly…

Couples are optimistic when they remarry.  They want life to settle down and to get on with the business of being happy.  However, it can take a long time for people in newly blended families to get to know each … Continue reading

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What ARE you Fighting About?

Do you find that you and your partner seem to fight about everything?   Maybe it’s the little things like; taking the garbage out, picking up bread from the store, answering the phone, etc.   Maybe you fight about bigger topics like; money, friends, … Continue reading

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9 Relationship Questions: Before the Big Question

You meet the person of your dreams – check. You fall in love – check. There is a proposal – check. And you live happily ever – ah, not so fast! Love is a good start but it isn’t everything. … Continue reading

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Cold Feet

Did you get engaged over the holidays?   Worried about accepting or proposing the offer? We will soon be facing Valentine’s Day. This brings the possibility of popping the question or saying “I do”.   Underneath all the excitement and anticipating comes … Continue reading

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Relationship question…

If your relationship were a party, what would it look like?   Would it be an intimate dinner? Would it be a rave? A costume party? What does it look like to others?

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DEALING WITH THE IN-LAWS

Whether you are hosting a dinner, visiting for the holidays, or meeting for the first time, the in-laws can be a little scary.   You may be full of questions but the biggest is likely, “will they like me?” or “what … Continue reading

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A New Line on the Honey Do List

Last month I highlighted what doesn’t work, motivate or inspire your partner.  So what does…?? People in supportive, loving relationships are more likely to feel healthier, happier, and satisfied with their lives, and less likely to have mental or physical … Continue reading

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DO NOT Try This At Home!

Have you ever noticed that some people know just what to say at the right time.   They seem to know when a friend is sick; they are caring and compassionate, and step up to support as needed.   When a friend … Continue reading

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Divorce: What not to do to your kids

Divorce is a very adult decision that affects everyone; the kids, the pets, the friends, the in-laws and the out-laws.  How do you get through such a huge life event without screwing it up? First, know you will, inevitably, make mistakes.  … Continue reading

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