What is a caregiver? Who are they?
Guess what – It can be anyone doing anything that is helpful to the person who needs it. I help take June to the doctor, run errands, sit in treatments, and I’ve even helped her get her car fixed. I offer a shoulder, hugs, tissues, laughter, what ever she needs that I can do.
No questions… no expectations… and no return on investment.
I have encouraged June to reach out to other friends who have offered to help. This helps me – sure – but it also gives her a break from me. It also offers her different perspectives and strengths. I don’t want to be the only person she can count on. That feels selfish to me. I want to be part of the team… a member of the network. The more the merrier – and better for June!